{"id":214232,"date":"2024-05-09T14:26:39","date_gmt":"2024-05-09T12:26:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.qxworld.eu\/?p=214232"},"modified":"2024-09-06T12:22:29","modified_gmt":"2024-09-06T10:22:29","slug":"performance-anxiety","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.qxworld.eu\/ro\/anxietatea-de-performanta\/","title":{"rendered":"Veronica (40 de ani): \"Anxietatea de performan\u021b\u0103 nu m\u0103 mai re\u021bine.\""},"content":{"rendered":"
\u00cen ciuda unei diplome universitare \u0219i a unei cariere de succes \u00een afaceri, Veronica (40 de ani) s-a confruntat cu o anxietate sever\u0103 de performan\u021b\u0103 de la o v\u00e2rst\u0103 fraged\u0103. La 38 de ani, a apelat \u00een cele din urm\u0103 la M\u00f3nika B\u00f6lcskei, antrenor de s\u0103n\u0103tate mintal\u0103, pentru ajutor.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t Veronica<\/strong>: De fapt, am contactat-o pe M\u00f3nika pentru c\u0103 tocmai fusesem diagnosticat\u0103 cu ADHD<\/b><\/a>. Speram s\u0103 m\u0103 poat\u0103 ajuta, fiind un antrenor ADHD.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t Veronica<\/strong>: La \u0219coal\u0103, mi se p\u0103rea greu s\u0103 m\u0103 concentrez \u0219i f\u0103ceam at\u00e2t de multe gre\u0219eli \u00eenc\u00e2t m\u0103 sim\u021beam nervoas\u0103. Cu timpul, nervozitatea s-a transformat \u00een anxietate de performan\u021b\u0103, \u00een special \u00een situa\u021bii de mare presiune, cum ar fi respectarea termenelor limit\u0103 sau prezent\u0103rile. La apogeul carierei mele, petreceam nenum\u0103rate ore suplimentare pentru a ob\u021bine fiecare detaliu perfect. Acum c\u00e2\u021biva ani, acest lucru a \u00eenceput s\u0103-mi afecteze s\u0103n\u0103tatea mintal\u0103. Erau \u00eenc\u0103 at\u00e2t de multe lucruri pe care doream s\u0103 le realizez, dar anxietatea de performan\u021b\u0103 m\u0103 re\u021binea. M\u0103 sim\u021beam ca un ratat.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> M\u00f3nika<\/strong>: Cazul Veronic\u0103i a fost complex, a\u0219a cum este adesea cazul persoanelor cu ADHD. ADHD nu numai c\u0103 v\u0103 afecteaz\u0103 capacitatea de aten\u021bie, dar face \u0219i mai dificil controlul emo\u021biilor. A trebuit s\u0103 abord\u0103m nu numai simptomele ADHD, ci \u0219i anxietatea de performan\u021b\u0103 indus\u0103 de acesta.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t M\u00f3nika<\/strong>: Stabilirea \u00eencrederii \u0219i a \u00een\u021belegerii a fost fundamental\u0103 \u00een cazul Veronic\u0103i. Am vrut s\u0103 creez un spa\u021biu sigur pentru ca ea s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i exploreze deschis dificult\u0103\u021bile. Abordarea de coaching bazat\u0103 pe Compassionate Inquiry\u00ae ne-a permis s\u0103 abord\u0103m convingerile profunde care stau la baza anxiet\u0103\u021bii Veronic\u0103i.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> Veronica:<\/strong> \u00cen mod interesant, sesiunea a ar\u0103tat c\u0103, \u00een mod subcon\u0219tient, \u00eei asociam pe supervizorii mei de la locul de munc\u0103 cu tat\u0103l meu, care era foarte exigent cu mine \u00eenc\u0103 din copil\u0103rie. Nimic din ceea ce f\u0103ceam nu era niciodat\u0103 suficient de bun, iar e\u0219ecul nu era niciodat\u0103 o op\u021biune.<\/p> \u00a0<\/p> M\u00f3nika<\/strong>: \u00cempreun\u0103, am lucrat la reformularea convingerilor fundamentale ale Veronic\u0103i despre sine. \u0218i-a dat seama c\u0103 vechile idei pe care le adoptase \u00een copil\u0103rie nu \u00eei mai erau de folos \u0219i c\u0103 avea puterea de a le contesta \u0219i de a le schimba. Acesta a fost un punct de cotitur\u0103 \u00een c\u0103l\u0103toria ei c\u0103tre dep\u0103\u0219irea anxiet\u0103\u021bii de performan\u021b\u0103. \u00cen etapa urm\u0103toare, am \u00eencorporat sesiuni de biofeedback<\/b><\/a> pentru a o ajuta cu gestionarea stresului<\/b><\/a>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t M<\/strong>\u00f3<\/strong>nika<\/strong>: Biofeedback este un instrument puternic pentru construirea con\u0219tiin\u021bei de sine \u0219i dezvoltarea abilit\u0103\u021bilor de autoreglare. Prin antrenarea min\u021bii \u0219i a corpului pentru a lucra \u00eempreun\u0103 \u00een mod armonios, persoane precum Veronica se pot elibera din ghearele anxiet\u0103\u021bii de performan\u021b\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 le deblocheze \u00eentregul poten\u021bial<\/b><\/a>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\tADHD<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
QX: Te-ai confruntat cu anxietatea de performan\u021b\u0103 aproape toat\u0103 via\u021ba ta. Ce te-a f\u0103cut s\u0103 te hot\u0103r\u0103\u0219ti s\u0103 prime\u0219ti \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it ajutor?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
\u00ceX: Cum este s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti cu ADHD?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
Anxietatea de performan\u021b\u0103<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
\u00ceX: Cum v\u0103 descurca\u021bi cu ADHD \u0219i anxietatea de performan\u021b\u0103?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
Sesiuni de biofeedback<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t
\u00ceX: Ce este biofeedback-ul?<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t